Alcohol is definitely not the answer to the "how to control your emotions in a relationship, at work, anywhere" question. Some people start drinking because of their too-hard emotions. You need to know that it doesn't help and it only makes the problem worse. So better just don't drink alcohol at all or drink it as rarely as possible.
If you are spending time in a company of your friends or any other people and you feel that it's too hard for you because of your hard emotions, and you don't know how to control emotions at work, don't be afraid to leave and spend some time alone. It is your right and it is much better than staying there in a bad mood.
If you feel hard emotions too often, it is better for you to be as relaxed as just possible all the time. Caffeine won't help you with controlling negative emotions, as it has the opposite effect, so it can actually cause some of the emotions you want to get rid of. So better just stop drinking coffee and black tea.
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