How to deal with anger (Don't know why)

Use a diary to write down the things that make you angry. When you write down the things that make you angry, your anger may vanish.

This can be a way for you to release your anger, as well as help you to summarize the problems that cause your anger.

Sometimes the easiest way to get rid of your anger is to talk about it. Talk about the things that bother you and express your needs. Learn to ask for the things you need, but also hear what other people have to say.

But do not talk when you are furious. Let the things calm down and then try to find the solution.

Physical activity is a great way for you to release your anger. Pick a sport you most enjoy and it will help you to release the anger you build up.

When you are physiclly active your body becomes tired, but it also clears your head from angry and negative feelings.

I'm sure your body and mind will feel wonderful after a long run.

Breathing is important for your relaxation.

Follow the steps :

• Take a few slow and deep braths (exhale twice longer as you inhale);
• Breath in until your lungs is full;
• Follow your breath as it goes trough your belly first, then chest and upper chest;
• Fill your ribs expand;
• Pay attention how your ribs return when you exhale completely;
• Repeat this until you find it comfortable.

This is a very good technique, because when you get angry your breathing rate and heart rate increase. You can reverse these increases by taking deep and slow breaths.

But if you want this technique to work, you must stay persistent and practice this daily.

This is a relaxation techique. It will help you to relax and stop you from focusing on your anger.

This technique gives you the time to generate fresh solutions for your problems.

It takes only two steps :

1. Tighten and release your stressed muscles while you are slowly counting to ten;
2. Then move to another group of muscles.

After a while you should be able to go through your body in only a few minutes.

Music changes persons mood very quickly.

Play the music you love and if able dance to it.

Even a ten minute walk can clear your mind. Focus on your breathing and the things that surrounds you.

In this way you will remove yourself from angry situation and relax yourself.

Emotions can serve a purpose, even if that emotion is anger.

For example, when some of your child's behaviour annoys you can make your anger a healthy parental anger. Parental anger can compel you to focus on the situation that triggers the annoying behavior of your child. Try to fix the cause and there won't be the situation that makes you angry.

Sometimes you feel like you want to explode, scream out loud and destroy everything around you. And you just can't hold it inside anymore.

Instead of potentially hurting yourself or someone, simply use a punching bag or a pillow. This will help to release and express your anger. And you will not feel guilt if you hurt someone else or destroyed something valuable.

Just remember, don't do that in a harmful way!

If you like to draw, then this can be your way of anger management.

Put your feelings on the paper. This will help you to express your anger. A drawing will also help you to distract yourself from those angry feelings and relax you.

This technique will help you to become more conscious of your anger.

With anger meditation you will become more at peace with your feelings, even if those feelings aren't very peaceful.

Here are the steps : 

1. Forget about the content of anger, just focus on the feeling of anger;
2. Anger has a physical expression in your body, focus on that spot of your body, feel the anger;
3. Inhale; Bring your breath to meet your angry feeling. While you keep doing this, there will be less and less separation between your breathing and anger;
4. Continue doing this until you become more stable of your anger. You will handle it better than.

If you want to learn more about it, there are a lot websites that can be helpful, for example Onemomentmeditation.