If none of the more simple and immediate ideas work it might be a good idea to see a specialist in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
This treatment aims to help you change the focus of your thoughts and behaviours, through psychiatric therapy. You may be able to learn techniques and tools that can help you increase your tendency for sexual urges or re-kindle the flame in your labido.
If none of the other solutions helped sufficiently, your low labido could be a side effect of an illness or medical condition that requires attention. It's best to get in contact with your doctor and discuss with them your specific situation.
You might find this link useful, it is a simple article covering the most common medical situations that can lower sex drive.
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